Heidi

Poor Jess! It makes me think about what Marie Osmond wrote in her book about how she had a breakdown and got in the car and drove all day and checked into a seedy motel. She called her mom who told her that she had done the exact same thing when she was Marie's age. So, either these things are heriditary or we do them b/c our mom did them--either way, we just all have to try to do the best that we can. And get help if we need it. And not heap recriminations onto our heads. It doesn't make it better.